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Thomas “Tommy” Allen Ohmer III, 22, of Kokomo, passed away on Saturday, April 18, 2026. He was born on November 30, 2003, the son of Thomas Allen Ohmer Jr. and Candice Armstrong and step-mother, Kelly Ohmer.
Tommy worked as a laborer at Ohmer Drywall. He enjoyed writing music and riding dirtbikes and 4 wheelers. Tommy loved spending time with his family especially going to Indiana Dunes State Park with his dad.
Tommy is survived by his parents; siblings, Caitlyn Armstrong, Bobby Nichols, Caidyn Armstrong, Alyvia Ohmer, Jayla Armstrong, Taylor Ohmer, Jaxton Cooper, and Austin Ohmer; grandparents, Tom Ohmer Sr., Marty Armstrong, Telmon Nix, Jean & John Kaylor; nephews, Traylen, Kaicen, and Kazai Nichols and several aunts, uncles and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his grandmother, Marsha “Mimi” and friend, James “JJ” Gray.
A funeral service celebrating Tommy’s life will be held at 1 pm, Thursday April 30, 2026, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, 1315 W Lincoln Rd, Kokomo. Burial in Albright Cemetery will follow. Friends are invited to visit with the family from 11 am until the time of the service at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Shirley & Stout Funeral Home to assist with final expenses. Messages of condolence may be made at www.shirleyandstout.com.
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